For much of the late twentieth century, the country house hotel in southern England kept to a settled formula: a long drive, a panelled drawing room, heavy curtains, a formal dining room and a jacket at dinner. That version survives and still has admirers. But the most interesting openings of the past two decades have pulled the format in several directions at once, towards the farm and the kitchen garden, towards the spa and the members' club, and towards the feeling of borrowing a private house. The Cotswolds and the counties south of London show all of these shifts within an easy drive of each other, which makes the region a good place to decide what kind of stay you actually want.
The classic form, still in good order
Lucknam Park is the traditional country house at its most assured: a mile-long avenue of beech and lime planted in the 1820s, a Palladian mansion, and 500 acres of parkland in Wiltshire about fifteen minutes from Bath. Main-house rooms are formal and generous, the restaurant has drawn Michelin recognition, and a serious spa and an equestrian centre, with hacking across the estate, add depth. The village of Castle Combe is a few minutes' drive north. Rooms from around £395 a night.
Chewton Glen, on the southern fringe of the New Forest close to the Hampshire coast, has been a benchmark for decades and shows how an established house keeps moving. Alongside one of the larger country-house spas in Britain, a cookery school and a nine-hole golf course, it has added treehouse suites on stilts in the woods below the house, with wood-burners inside and hot tubs on their decks; they carry a significant premium over the house rooms and are often reserved months ahead for summer. A path through the fields reaches the clifftops over Christchurch Bay in about twenty minutes. Rooms from around £495.
Gardens and farms as the point of the stay
The biggest shift has been outward, from the drawing room to the land. Gravetye Manor in the High Weald of West Sussex was bought in 1884 by William Robinson, the garden writer who argued for naturalistic planting over rigid Victorian bedding, and his flower garden, oval walled kitchen garden and wild woodland planting are still managed along the lines he laid down. The seventeen rooms are comfortable rather than fashionable, the glass-walled dining room looks over the beds that supply it, and the kitchen has drawn Michelin recognition. Gatwick is fifteen minutes away. Rooms from around £465.
Heckfield Place in north Hampshire goes further, organising itself around its biodynamic home farm, which runs to a dairy, orchards and a market garden. Its two restaurants cook from what comes in, and rates include a daily guided walk around the estate's farm, woods and gardens. The Bothy, its wellbeing space, runs to 17,000 square feet with an 18-metre water area. Rooms from around £550.
In the southern Cotswolds, Thyme at Southrop is a restored cluster of farm buildings around a manor, more hamlet than hotel: guests walk between honey-coloured stone lodgings and walled gardens rather than along corridors. A cookery school occupies the tithe barn, there is a meadow spa, and the village pub, The Swan, serves locals as well as guests. Bibury, Burford and Lechlade are close by. Rooms from around £375.